Dear Trader999,
I am feeling very bad to know that you have lost lots of money. Analyze your trades carefully, and find what went wrong. Sometimes I feel if you are constantly lossing in trades for past 3 months then, your trading style could be reversed. I mean if you are lossing most of the time when you buy then, start shorting the same next time. But test the same before you give it a real try.
Its not necessary to follow my strategy or anybody elses, but its important to come up with a strategy or follow someone else's strategy only after testing.
One thing I learnt that keep emotions at bay and just follow your charts and do not ever leave any position open without any hedging. We should never think in our favour only. Always think for the worst and act accordingly. Fore most important thing in trading is money management. Save your hard earned money. If you have taken any position and your time tested startegy/charts says its a wrong trade then, immediately close it and look for another one but only according to your time tested strategy / charts. Just follow your strategy blindly once you have tested it and have seen it works for atleast 3 months in a row or upto max 2-3% loss of your capital set aside for trade. In case you lost 2-3% of your capital left for trading just stop trading for a month minimum and analyse your data and yourself. Trade with only 25% of your total capital. I did this and follow this so, sharing the same here.
Best of luck and happy trading.
Regards